Tuesday, 20 March 2007

more advice on that friend situation

Hi Krissieblah,
thank you for the advice..yes i have only known this guy for a few days but i, for some reason unknown, really like him...Gianni may have been led on by me but it wasnt intended im a very affectionate person.... i mean i love him to bits as a friend but i dont intend for it to get serious any time soon and for us to stay friends is a big deal to me but he is.. well seems to be a very stubborn person and i have never seen this side of him before.....for a reason i dont know he may dislike the "newby" but that has nothing to do with me and he should be angry at him not me...it really got to me on friday but bringing it out in discussion helped me realise how important this is to me......I havnt spoken to Gianni since the fight but do u think I should make the first move and ring him or should i wait for him to come around and apologise to me?? Anyways thanks again..
very distressed
(fem 16)

2 comments:

krissieblah said...

well...I need to ask...whats with the little "i's" ? Why do we do that on the computer...I notice ai do it too....anyhow....

My dear...

you are very honest which is great for you cause its really hard to make the right decision when you are not fully honest...anyhow....as for waiting for him...well why not...I know you must be sad to lose a close friend but that is a fact of life sometimes....we lose friends and we make some new ones, but I havent met anyone who hasnt lost a friend or two in life...anyhow....

I hope you have enough friends that you will be fine and give him some space...
He should apologise for his behaviour but you dont OWE him anything just because youre a nice person doesnt mean being a door mat ;)

Hmmm...best of luck Im sure it will all work out fine...and thanks for keeping us updated...

cheers,

Krissieblah

quirky-flick said...

Hey Kris your blog is good i guess...... but mine is better nah jk !